Happy Thursday Y’ALL!
It’s currently 78 and Sunny here and its a taste of Summer and Fall mixed together, I’m kind of loving it because it’s not freezing yet. Definitely not ready for winter, am I right y’all? Anyway back to the point of this post, How to control the chaos. Whether the chaos is your relationship, financial, physical, emotional/mental or spiritual. I’m going to give you my insight on how I control it all. I am definitely not perfect, but who is?
First things first, GET YOUR ASS UP EARLY! (AKA the ass crack of dawn) This has worked for me, I am not a morning person whatsoever but I am slowly learning to love it. The beautiful sunrises here in Montana definitely give me some motivation plus it helps when you go to bed before 9pm, haha.
Just take it one morning at a time, eventually you will get accustomed to it, trust me. And all you morning peeps out there back me up here getting up early gives you a sense of accomplishment. Right?!
Next, get a pen/pencil or even a crayon whatever works for you and a piece of paper and write every task or problem you currently have. Essentially make a list! I was never a list person but I always saw my older sister do it and she’s someone I look up to when it comes to being organizing and making lists. So recently I have started making lists and you would be surprised how great it feels to get your thoughts onto paper.
Now that you have your list or lists, tackle the hardest thing first! YOU GOT THIS GIRL, GET IT!
I know what works for me but I will try to give some of my knowledge to you, when I have something that is weighing on my mind I try to : Write it out or talk it out with someone, there is always someone around to talk to whether you see it or not, and I’m here if you ever need to talk to, you can always message me on my social media and I will try to be a listening ear for you!
Your Relationship Status : If you are having relationship problems, talk it out with your significant other, you will be surprised on how easy it is to do with the right person. Remember the person you’re with should be able to love you unconditionally and if they don’t then what are you doing?
Being in a relationship is accepting that person for all that they are, not trying to change them into something they aren’t. There hopes, dreams, fears, flaws, and everything else that comes along with them.
If you aren’t willing to talk to them about anything and everything, there might be a problem. But then again that’s just my own personal opinion. And if you are one of the few that talk it out, you’re lucky because that’s priceless.
Happiness comes from within yourself first and not from someone else, but if you are lucky enough to have that rare kind of love throughout the relationship, you can share that happiness with the world.
Your Financial Status : Whether you are rich, poor, broke or somewhere in between. Just know that money isn’t everything. But I do understand as a young adult that it’s a necessary evil that makes the world go round.
If you have chaos brewing in your finances, get that shit taken care of asap! It wont go away just because you ignore it, that will come back to bite you in the butt.
Your Physical Status : Your actual physical state and your physical surroundings. I always give myself the same advice, look around you… Do it now, go ahead! Anyway, did you look around? Okay, did you see chaos looming around you, dirty dishes, unmade bed, toys all over the place, empty food wrappers, laundry that needs to be done, maybe even an episode of hoarders but that’s for another blog post entirely, whatever it is around you take it one thing at a time.
One thing will turn into two and so on. Finally, to the point where there is little to no physical chaos around you. Clean surrounding relieves the chaos in your mind.
So on to the next physical aspect of your chaos, your actual physical state/ appearance. Let me just say one thing first, YOU ARE BEAUTIFUL the way you are no matter what anyone else says. And if they don’t think you are beautiful inside and out then tell them to GO FUCK THEMSELVES!
Only you can change your physical state, it’s up to you to give yourself and your body what it deserves, you are unstoppable if you keep telling yourself that. Everyone is made differently, that’s what makes us unique. If we were all made the same that would be one boring world, am I right? You were made in your likeness and you should really cherish that. In the end, give your body the respect and love it deserves.
Your Emotional/Mental Well Being : Whatever it is that you’re going through right now, you will get through it. I really mean that. Nothing lasts forever. When I’m having emotional or mental chaos, I always listen to music, sad music at that. Sometimes its better to get a really good, long cry out.
But if you aren’t a crier then might I suggest watching or listening to comedy, it could be a movie, a skit, or just laughing at funny videos on YouTube, come on know the ones where the title reads, try to get through the video without laughing. Or talk to someone you trust, whatever you know that works for you, do that. We all have problems but if we share them, then sometimes they wont seem that big anymore.
Spiritually : If you are struggling with chaos in a spiritual nature, Find something to believe in and hold on tight to your beliefs, because they are your own and no one can take that from you.
The chaos that engulfs you is not always as big as it seems, you can work and control it. All you have to do is believe in yourself, you will get there.
If this helped you, please comment and tell me what you do to control your chaos.