HEY THERE! YEAH, you reading this !
I’ll start this off by saying I still haven’t found my blog groove quite yet, but I’ll get there just give me some time. I would like to blog at least a few times a week or even daily, you know what never mind I am just gonna go for it and blog daily!!!!!!! Ultimately writing this because I need a little motivation and it helps me to motivate others!
I’m still finding myself and my purpose but really isn’t everyone?
This post is for all my beginners, do-overs, I’ll start Monday, I have no time, its the weekend, unmotivated, uninspired, unwilling, tired, afraid, lonely, just needs a little bit of a push, blah blah blah, I can’t do it people out there. First, know this: YOU ABSOLUTELY CAN FUCKING DO IT! sorry not sorry for the language but you got this!! Whether you want to get healthy, lose weight, quit and get a new job/career, get a tattoo, move across the country, leave your toxic relationship, go skydiving, learn a new skill, or even just talk to a stranger. STOP BEING AFRAID AND DO IT DAMNIT!
This life is way too short to not do things that make your heart and soul happy. Be so happy that when others look at you they become happy too! Be so inspired and motivated that you fall in love with the journey it takes you on and you will see the results and effects in your life that you want.
So do you need a push or someone to help you with that? NO, you don’t. The only person you need to push you is yourself, you need to look deep inside and ask yourself. Am I happy? Am I where I want to be? Am I going to change my life or stay the same?
GO LOOK IN THE MIRROR! And tell yourself that you are STRONG, IMPORTANT, WORTHY, AND SO BEAUTIFUL INSIDE AND OUT! GO DO IT, NOW!
We all have things and people in our lives that tell us no, that we cant do it, doubting us, judging us, and holding us back. DO NOT LET OTHERS DECIDE YOUR HAPPINESS! YOU decide! Stop making excuses, stop telling yourself no, and stop putting everyone before yourself. YOU NEED TO PUT YOURSELF AND YOUR HAPPINESS BEFORE ANYTHING ELSE!
I often think back to how many times I made excuses for why I couldn’t do something in life. I made excuses for how I was treated in relationships and people surrounding me, don’t you ever accept anything less than what you deserve, EVER! You can leave and be happy on your own, that’s when you discover who you truly are and what you want.
Now go do what makes you happy, what fills your soul, and lights up your life. And don’t forget to take risks, seek adventure and find your happiness wherever that might be, you will see the changes from the effort you put in!
One last thing, I have to thank my best friend Ashley for always standing by me through everything, the good, the bad, the absolute worst and being the greatest friend and person in my life. And last but definitely not least, you have read about him in a couple blog posts already, but I want to thank my fiancé for showing me what unconditional love truly is and accepting me flaws and all.